My new boyfriend likes to send me little, um, pictures of his affection for me during the day. It really bothers me and I don't want to hurt his feelings, but, I mean, enough of his penis already!
Jayco
Hey Jayco,
Adult sexting? That's a new one, so I thought. I gave a call over to a friend at gay.com and found out they even have a group for it over there. Apparently, I'm quite the prude. The simple fact of the matter is that it is a behavior you are uncomfortable with. You've got to speak up and if you don't want to get those little gifts during the day. Try to:
- Assure him you are attracted to him and you prefer to keep it in the bedroom.
- Find other things about him that you like or respect and talk those areas up.
- Remind him that once it's on the net, it's always on the net.
- If nothing else, blame it on the boss.
Also, legally, the photographs could easily be construed as sexual harassment in today's litigious world. That little peek at peter could land you in hot water.
Be careful or his hobby could cost you more than either of you expected.
Dr. Reece

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