How long does the average person wait between relationships. I've been out for one for a month and I'm thinking about jumping back in the pool. Is the water fine?
Rick
Dear Rick,
Just a month? Hold up there, Rick. What all is going on that you are rushing back to dating to find love? Did you know that can be a sign that you have some personal issues? It can also mean you've really got you're shit straight, so how do you know? Look for these warning signs. See if any of the statements apply to you.
- I feel more social when I'm dating.
- I feel relief when I am dating someone.
- I feel happy only when I'm dating someone.
- I help people when I date them.
- I feel like I matter only when I'm dating.
If any of the above match you, then you may want to take a break and think about working on YOU before you decide to work on YOU+. Knowing our self-worth and learning to be independently happy are hard lessons to learn but lessons we need. In order to realize you are a wonderful, lovable person takes interaction between you and you.
Of course, you don't want to be a hermit and never go out, but go out to new situations, places and people. Do something nice for yourself, especially if you would have previously spent the money or time on your other. And, wait until the following statements are true for yourself:
- I am a loving and kind person.
- I am worthy of good things in life.
- I am okay just as I am.
- I can take care of myself.
If you can do these statements, and mean them, well, you're a step closer to be ready for Mr. Right.
Good luck,
Dr. Reece
Ask Dr. Reece is brought to you by Reece W. Manley, DD, M.Ed., MPM, a spirituality expert and leading GLBT spirituality authority also provides gay life coaching.http://www.gaylifecoach.info
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